Self-Support During Couple Dispute
When one member of a couple experiences deep hurt, that person can want out of a relationship. Commonly, we humans react in blaming the other for causing the hurt feeling. (The other guy is at fault.) What if the other member of the couple does not accept the blame nor attack in response.
New Habits, More Personal Power
What a bold step we can make when we awaken to what new thoughts we can think, what more we can do for ourselves!
A Focus on Good Has Pay Off
“Mess with me and I fight back! Put up your Dukes!” No, we can choose a focus on Goodness instead. Let’s read about how such an attitude plays out.
Choosing Our Language with Care
We promote our Well Being in so many aspects of caring for ourselves. Here we emphasize how we speak about a bodily condition. Do we take care to describe a temporary condition that pops up while our Well Being is always pouring down, around and through? Does our language acknowledge how easily we return to harmonious state?
Prayer for Healing Answered
According to Neville Goddard in his work “Feeling is the Secret,” the best way to receive what we want when we pray is to feel as though we already have it. We are advised to immerse ourselves in the feeling quality of that desired thing (or condition) as we focus in prayer.
“Feeling the reality of the state sought and living and acting on that conviction is the way of all seeming miracles.”[1]
Getting Past Pop-Up Fear
We can find ourselves afraid of what happens to someone else. Let’s reframe those thoughts as we notice them.
Trust the Healed Self
We want to remain vigilant on our past habit of thought. We review that we don’t want to do that “abd” thing again. Except that means we are focusing on what we do NOT want more than on wanted.
At some point after years of practice, what if we lean more heavily on assuming we are ok to trust ourselves. We have invested in a “new ME,” in gaining confidence and in reliably aligning with Forces of Good.
Reminders of Connection
We are loved all the time. Even when we feel upset. We attract reminders of our connection as we reach for remembering. Sometimes we have more hours of a lower mood than preferred– even as we reach to lift ourselves bit by bit. For a time we are moving toward happiness though we may not […]
Healing a Jealous Habit
Most of us experience jealous feelings for at least a few moments in the course of our lives. Some of us feel jelousy frequently. Shifting such a habit to an emotion that feels better not only is its own reward (to feel better) but may also facilitate our getting “what we want” more readily. Please […]
Trusting Life
We want to know that the Good in Life is always with us. Various blips on our path show up; we feel our primitive reactions. Can we keep reaching for calm from that base of trust? Is it akin to skiing the slopes of our upset, heading down hill with as much grace as we can muster. Here is one account: