What a bold step we can make when we awaken to what new thoughts we can think, what more we can do for ourselves!
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Becky sought some assistance from Wise Counsel. This woman felt overwhelmed by some mean-spirited interactions and other demands on her time.
Specifically, Becky’s partner often spoke statements of disrespect and made requests of her that felt burdensome. What advice could Wise Counsel offer?
The Advice
WC: First, Let’s be clear that you will be doing work inside yourself to find more happiness here. I will advise and the changes will be up to you.
Becky: Yes I know you will act as a coach, not the player. 😊
WC: Great you know you want to build strength from inside yourself, self-love and feeling more balanced, calmer and wiser.
Key Tools
Let me review some key tools:
- Take quiet time each day.
- Connect to Higher Power, God, Source Energy. You want to align with Pure Love.
- Breathe
- Appreciate yourself and much in your life “In that session take time to appreciate yourself. Maybe make written lists.
- Experiment with appreciating what you can in your partner. What are some of his positive attributes.
- Call up for what you are grateful.
- Counterbalance the mean content. Did you feel bad about yourself?
Those mean things are not true! And you NEVER were those things and those qualities were never true!
- Make note of what passages, tracks, music soothe you. Keep those handy and use them regularly throughout your waking hours.
- Keep lists of all the Good you see in Yourself! Notice that you are growing in strength.
- You are launching a new and exciting chapter of your life! So much more to come!”
The Response
Becky: Wow I feel so much better. You offered just what I called for.
I will begin to put these to use as soon as I hang up! Thanks so much!
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Janet Pearlman is a spiritual teacher, counselor, healer and artist. These posts demonstrate everyday applications of the path to greater self knowledge and mastery. Opportunities for greater empowerment abound in the moments of our lives. As we all go for operating from a centered and loving space, we are creating a world where peace can prevail. In her forty-six year journey of self-discovery, Janet has deeply studied the teachings of Abraham-Hicks, Ernest Holmes, Inayat Khan and more. Janet offers individual sessions by phone and in person. Please contact her at jpearl555@earthink.net to arrange an appointment.