Whatever we focus on we get more of it. Therefore, acknowledging Law of Attraction, if we can feel so frustrated that currently we don’t have what we really want, the very feeling of frustration is keeping it away.
What a nut to crack! But hey we really do want this thing we want.
Here’s one approach: Go after what you want and ENJOY LIFE ON The Path. Let’s relax, feel good and be kind to ourselves. Some goals may take longer than others. Let’s read this classic exchange, cheering on persistence.
The Exchange
This story begins with Sylvia running a group promoting consciousness of our thoughts and feelings. S facilitates sharing on how we can focus so we live in with a more playful attitude, more expression of kindness, enjoying our lives.
Karima was attending, eager to soak up tools and insight on how to pay attention to manifest what she wants.
First, they discussed Karima approach to going for greater financial abundance.
Then in a few moments, Sylvia discussed how she plays with her goal of attracting a partner. S is dating, so far has not found a boyfriend, and is enjoying her life anyway. The heroine said:
“I stay in the moment. On this journey I want to appreciate all that I DO manifest and what I am learning. So far, the dating has not resulted in a boyfriend per se but I am growing so much stronger, more self-supporting and happier on the way to this goal.
Karima says, “Since you are not meeting your goal and you are happy, don’t you wonder if you are denying your goal?”
Sylvia says, “No I am not denying my goal. The law of attraction operates such that when I am flowing fully in happiness about a goal, it will be met at some point. If I have not yet achieved my goal, it means I do have some resistance about it.
I am devoting myself to enjoying as much as I can. With persistence, I make inner adjustments to my attitude and assumptions as I play in the arena of dating.
If I told myself ‘I am denying my goal’ I would be putting myself down, a mean-spirited assessment. Instead, I am training myself to speak kindly to my dear self.”
Karima responded, “Well for myself I want to be clear I really want to meet my goals! I really want to get there! “
S tells her, “Good for you. You know your desires. What I am holding out here is a possibility of enjoying the path to the goal, to find a place of happy with or without getting just what you want right now.”
K speaks up, “Ok I can see that. I want patience and I want to tune into the moment and relax while I go toward the goal. I can chill more 😊”
S nods with energy, “You got it. Yes!”
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Janet Pearlman is a spiritual teacher, counselor, healer and artist. These posts demonstrate everyday applications of the path to greater self knowledge and mastery. Opportunities for greater empowerment abound in the moments of our lives. As we all go for operating from a centered and loving space, we are creating a world where peace can prevail. In her forty-six year journey of self-discovery, Janet has deeply studied the teachings of Abraham-Hicks, Ernest Holmes, Inayat Khan and more. Janet offers individual sessions by phone and in person. Please contact her at jpearl555@earthink.net to arrange an appointment.